Someone in profit quietly takes their gains and walks away, or quietly rides it out.
Someone who believes in the project will ride it out too, they will understand you taking profits, they will be confident someone else will buy in. They will generally behave in an encouraging manner.
People doing the shouting are usually bag holders, this all may be obvious to most of you, but for some, particularly when it is "your coin" it is hard to see.
Take a step back and look objectively at it as if it were another coin, think about how you would feel looking from the outside.
A community that berates you for selling when you want to is toxic and should be a red flag.
Take care out there people